For anyone that is looking to improve upon how the feel about themselves and how intimate their relationship is with their loved one, that you should take the time to delve a little deeper in to the ancient Indian teaching of Tantra.
It is through Tantra that you are going to be able to experience a whole new stage of bliss for the body and the soul.
Tantra massages help in letting go, relaxing and surrendering to the deeper senses and one’s own sensuality. Following a defined ritual, the entire body is massaged in a loving way using selected oils. This includes also the genital areas if you wish. This special Yoni- or Lingam massage activates the sensitive reflexology and erotic points in this areas.
Sensual accessories such as feathers and silk are used to sensitize the skin. It is safe to say that most people are looking for ways to try something new to enrich their sexual experiences. When you are the person receiving the massage you are in a passive and receiving role. The point is for you to experience pleasure and enjoyment.
There are various types of Tantric massage to consider. I want to list a few of the different types of Tantric massage you can learn about, practice and receive. There are massage professionals that practice these as well, it may take some looking to find qualified massage therapists… It could be a lot more fun for you and your significant other to get a few books and a few videos and learn how to perform these yourself.
The 4 Hand Massage
A rising intensity of sensual pleasure can be experienced by being touched by two women or a man and a woman at the same time. A quartet of sensitive hands floats across the body. A luxurious variation, which is recommend to those who know to enjoy.
For Woman
Tantra massage including the Yoni massage, a massage of pure relaxation which includes with plenty of time the outer and inner area of the Yoni and the pelvis. Without any pressure you can gain a deeper connection to yourself by being massaged in your most intimate space. Your feeling will touch you deeply – it is healing as well as sensual.
What is the Yoni?
Yoni is the Sanskrit word for the vagina that is loosely translated as “sacred space” or “Sacred Temple.” In Tantra, the Yoni is seen from a perspective of love and respect. This is particularly important for men to learn.
Before beginning the Yoni Massage it is important to create a space for the woman (the receiver) in which to relax, from which she can more easily enter a state of high arousal and experience great pleasure from her Yoni. Her partner (the giver) will experience the joy of giving pleasure and witnessing a special moment. The Yoni Massage can also be used as a form of “safe sex” and is an excellent activity to build trust and intimacy. Some massage and sex therapists use it to assist women to break through sexual blocks or trauma.
The goal of the Yoni massage is not solely to achieve orgasm, although orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal can be as simple as to pleasure and massage the Yoni. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and do not have to worry about achieving any particular goal. When orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. It is also helpful for the giver to not expect anything in return, but simply allow the receiver to enjoy the massage and to relax into herself.
Massage for Couples
This is a massage that you would have done for you. The point of this massage is for you and your partner to experience the massage together. Is it possible to learn how to do this when it is just the two of, yes… and with practice it could have an even more intense result. To experience this massage together can be very strong and unique. Also it can give a wonderful idea how to enrich your love life.
Here both partners enjoy the massage together. They are massaged from either two woman or a man and a woman at the same time, deciding themselves whether they would like to be massaged in the same or in separate rooms. There will be no sexual intercourse between the partners. At the end of the massage you have 15 min alone to be together in your own way.
If you decide for one room it is recommend that you mentally prepare yourself. Than be aware of that at the same time four people are in the room. It can be more difficult to keep to your own perception. Also to create a space that you can both really open yourself it is good to discuss together whether it is okay for both of you that your partner lying next to you will be touched intimately by another woman.
