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How to Perform Sensual Massage

July 1, 2008 by WiseOne

Humans are sensual beings and we all need to time to relax and get in tune with our senses. Our sensuality is controlled by one basic factor, that is our sense of smell. This is where pheromones come into play, they are the chemicals that our body secretes through the sweat glands that act as a natural aphrodisiac and they trigger sexual attraction.

There are also natural aromatic plant oils that can be used to relax, heighten awareness, excite our senses and create a mood for love. Massage can also prove to be a extremely pleasurable and can be an incredible sensual experience for one and all. You may be surprised to know that the most erogenous zones that will bring about the most pleasure are the back of the neck, the scalp, the solar plexus and the inside of the elbow.

Before you start sensual massage make sure that you have set the atmosphere in the room. Make sure that it’s sensual and calm. Dim the lights and/or light a few candles. Place a few drops of essential oil in a fragrancer, that will help turn up the heat. You might also want to store scented balls in the drawers where bed linen and lingerie is stored. Apply perfume to the erogenous zones of your body and wait for your partner to discover the sweet scented areas of your body.

The loving touch of partner massage is always enjoyable. Using plenty of effleurage all over will do the trick, deeper kneading for tense areas and light feather strokes with the fingertips should be done to excite the surface of the skin.

One of the most sensitive area is the back, hence, sit back-to-back and move gently together feeling the contours of your partner’s back against yours. Press against each other in such a way that you can feel the pelvis, the spine and the shoulders. Rest your head back on your partner’s shoulder, and enjoy the feeling of your backs exchanging warmth and energy.

Now, let your thumbs gently stroke down from the nape of the neck to each side of the spine. Then working with slightly more pressure return up each side of the spine. Repeat this process two or three times. Concentrate next on the lower back area. Using the heel, of the hand, knead the buttocks, then come back to the start and work over a different area. The nerves that cross this area relate to the man’s groin, and the woman’s uterus.

Moving towards the thighs, curl your third and fourth fingers under, place your hands towards the top of the upper legs and circle your first and second fingers outward, one hand alternating with the other. Then while supporting your partner’s leg across your thigh, circle your thumbs over the calf, alternating the thumbs and applying firm pressure. Raise your partner’s foot and knead the instep firmly, using the thumbs to apply the pressure. Work all over the ball of the foot up toward the big toe. Finally, with the thumb and first finger of the hand, stroke round the ankle using circular movements.Imagination plays an important role in sensual massage and it is for you and your partner to keep on experimenting to make it more relaxing and exciting. Last but not the least, keep in mind to be tender, loving, playful and creative.